Highest League · Tess Bremner
Highest League

Your love life gets to be as fucking fabulous as the rest of your life.

For ambitious women who want the romance, the butterflies and a love that makes their already incredible life even better... without the overthinking, compromising their needs or making their love life the centre of their entire world.

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Founder of Highest League & the woman behind The Ascent

Meet Tess.

NLP Master Practitioner3 years coaching150+ women supported

Hi, I'm Tess. And I know what it's like to have your shit together everywhere except your love life.

I spent four years in a relationship that made me miserable, terrified to leave in case I ended up alone forever. As the eldest daughter of divorced parents, I'd always been the glue, and I'd carried that straight into love. Emotionally unavailable men, or men I thought I could fix.

When I finally left, I changed EVERYTHING. New house, new job, two stone lighter. But changing my circumstances hadn't changed the beliefs I was carrying into them.

Working on those beliefs changed everything. Today I'm with Chaz, being myself and enjoying being loved without worrying about losing it. And it's exactly why I created Highest League.

Welcome to your Highest League, babe.

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The Highest League philosophy

You get to want it all. Without putting yourself second to have it.

The butterflies, the passion, the romance and someone who absolutely fucking adores you. The kind of relationship where you feel wanted, secure and completely yourself, with someone who's just as excited about building an incredible life together as you are.

Because I don't believe being an ambitious, independent woman means you should have to pretend you don't care about finding love. You can have an incredible career, gorgeous friendships, big goals and a life you're genuinely proud of, and still want to fall ridiculously in love with someone.

And you should get to want every bit of that.

What I don't believe is that finding love should require you to put yourself second in the process.

I don't believe you should have to become the cool girl who pretends she doesn't care, spend hours trying to work out what someone's messages mean or convince yourself that wanting consistency and affection makes you needy.

And I certainly don't believe that being chosen by someone should have the power to determine how you feel about yourself or the life you've worked so fucking hard to build.

That's what Highest League is about. Understanding what's influencing the way you experience love, learning to trust yourself and creating relationships where you can be open, loving and completely yourself without losing sight of what matters to you.

Whether you're single, dating or already in a relationship, I want you to know that you don't have to choose between being the woman who has her shit together and the woman who wants the big, ridiculous love story.

You get to be both.

Because you've worked too fucking hard to build a life you love to spend it questioning whether you're lovable.

Love should add to your life. Not become the measure of it.

Ways to enter your Highest League.

Real women. Real experiences.

See what other women had to say.

I could spend all day telling you what it looks like to change your relationship with love, but I'd rather you hear from the women who've actually experienced this work.

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Don't know where to start? Take the free Relationship Archetype Quiz.

Discover how you show up in love, the patterns that might be influencing your experiences and what you can start doing differently.

Find out your archetype

You don't have to choose.

You can have an incredible career, brilliant friendships, a gorgeous life AND a man who absolutely adores you.

You get to want all of it, babe, without putting yourself second to have it.

Explore ways to work with me

Your next chapter is waiting, babe. Let's make it a fucking good one. 💋

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